Thank you Conker for your time...
i did exactly what you wrote ...except from step #5 ...click on "read" from radio..it show " Receive no Data"..and on the list it didnt shown anything ..

...and i pressed the "GR" notthing happened..um...so i dont know .
and for the connection from radio i used the programming cable..BUT cant connect to Laptop ..b/c the port is diffirence 9 Pin and 15 Pin on laptop ( showned on pic ) so that why i used the USB connection ( so i dont know if that why it not connected???) or something wrong.
My last wish is ...can you shown me how you connect to Laptop ??? do you used other device ??( beside the programming cable come with radio )..
Thank you